Saying 'Hell Yes!' to Your Dharma: A Guide to Mindful Decision-Making

Hello, you magnificent beings! 🌟 If you've landed on this page, it's likely that you're already pretty darn successful. High five! 🙌 But let's get real. Deep in your heart, you sense there's more to life, right? You have these glorious dreams and untapped potential that often get sidelined because, well, life happens. Distractions creep in, procrastination takes the helm, and sometimes even the fear of reactions—like what Uncle Rob might say on Facebook—holds you back from stepping into your greatness. But guess what? Today is your lucky day. We're delving into the art of deciding with Dharma. Wondering what Dharma is? Read on to find out! Grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and let’s go! 🎉

Why Dharma Matters in Decision-Making

Alright, before diving deep, let’s answer this burning question: "What the heck is Dharma?" At its core, Dharma is the sweet spot between your most profound inner truths and your unique talents. It's like your soul's GPS guiding you towards your true north. 🧭 When you make decisions that resonate with your Dharma, you're not just living; you're thriving, creating, and contributing to the world in a way only you can. 🌎🤗

Now, let's take a glimpse into the lives of two remarkable individuals who, despite their vastly different fields, perfectly embodied the spirit of Dharma.

First up, the inspirational Jane Goodall. 🌿 Driven by an unparalleled love for animals and a passion to understand their behaviors, she defined her Dharma. Without any formal training early on, Jane ventured into the forests of Gombe, Tanzania, to observe our close relatives, the chimpanzees. Facing skepticism and criticism, she still unveiled groundbreaking insights into primate behaviors, profoundly altering our understanding of them and advocating for their conservation. Now that's following your heart! ❤️🐒

Swinging from the lush forests to the hardwood courts, we have the legendary Michael Jordan. 🏀 Jordan didn't throw in the towel, even after facing early career setbacks—like being cut from his high school varsity team. Instead, he honed his talents, fueled by an undying passion for basketball. His Dharma? To play ball like no one ever had. The result? Six NBA championships, numerous accolades, and inspiring a whole generation to "Be Like Mike." Slam dunk Dharma, right? 🙌🔥

Whether it's protecting the intricate beauty of nature or shooting hoops, saying "yes" to your Dharma means embracing that inner fire, that unique thing that makes your heart sing. 🎤🎶 

Furthermore, saying "no" to what doesn't resonate with your Dharma allows room for affirming choices. Think of it as decluttering your metaphorical closet, cherishing the choices that truly fit. Challenges then become stepping stones, reinforcing your bond with your true self. Amidst the racket of life, let Dharma be your anchor, turning every decision into a purpose-driven voyage🚢—a journey that empowers you to craft a life that you absolutely love.

The Power of Saying "No"

Now, back to the main topic of our blog today: saying "no" to distractions based on our Dharma. Remember those childhood days when saying "no" felt exhilarating? It's time to channel that audacious spirit, but with a twist. Instead of merely saying "no," you're passionately proclaiming "HELL YES!" 🎉 to your Dharma. When you begin to decline distractions—whether it's a job offer, a relationship, or even a night out—you empower your life's mission.

I get it; saying "no" isn't easy. You don't want to disappoint people 😔, and you're worried about missing out. Trust me, I've been there. But once you experience the freedom that comes from such mindful decision-making, there's no turning back. 🚀

Now that we've acknowledged the power of saying 'no,' how can we ensure our decisions are in alignment with our true self and Dharma?

Deciding with Dharma: Making Authentic Choices

Like any skill, deciding with Dharma requires practice. Here are three questions to help you develop your Dharma decision-making skills:

1. Does this choice nourish my soul? If it feels light, exciting, and expansive 🌤️🎈,  it's likely in sync with your Dharma.
2. Does this serve a higher purpose? Consider if your decision aligns with your larger goals and the impact you desire on the world.
3. Is this decision truly mine? 🤔🗝️ Choices can be influenced, but they should always be yours. Remember, it’s your compass; only you truly know its North. 

While these questions provide a foundational understanding, if you're keen on integrating Dharma deeply into your everyday life 🌿📅, consider the following practical steps.

• Daily Dharma Diary: Spend 5 minutes each morning noting what feels aligned for you. By evening, reflect on your choices and their alignment with your Dharma.
• Dharma Detox: Identify three distractions that often pull your compass off course. Commit to reducing them, one at a time.
• Dharma Dates: Weekly, indulge in an activity purely in sync with your inner compass—no distractions or people-pleasing, just pure YOU-time.
• Dharma Defenders: Partner with a friend to share Dharma goals and check in weekly. It's always more enjoyable with company. 🤜🤛
• Transform with a Dharma Specialist: Are you serious about embracing your Dharma in every corner of your life? Ready to embark on this transformative journey? Book a coaching call with me, Lori Mage, your Dharma Specialist, and let's see if coaching is a right next step for you right now.

Your Dharma, Your Destiny

Alright, my authentic soul-mates, it’s time to wrap this one up. I'm sure you know this, but like all profound truths, it's worth repeating. As you venture into the week, remember: every moment of each day holds the potential for an authentic choice. Embrace your Dharma, ask the golden three questions, undergo that Dharma detox, and treat yourself to that Dharma Date. Why? Because the world (now more than ever!) needs you to shine. It beckons you to come alive and to live your truth. Reject those flashy distractions and say "YES!" to your most authentic, most awesome, kick-ass life. You've totally got this, and know that I'm cheering for you at every twist and turn! 🚀💃

Much love,
Lori

P.S. 🚀 Remember that game of 'telephone' from when we were kids? Let's play an upgraded version. Share this blog with someone who needs a little Dharma nudge in their life. Imagine a world where everyone's living their true purpose. Now that's a game-changer! 🌎😎🌻

P.P.S. If you had all the time and all the money in the world, what would you do? 🕰️💰 If that doesn't stop a person in their tracks, I don't know what would. That question is from the great book "The Seven Laws of Spiritual Success" by Deepak Chopra. And that question, along with "Does this path have heart?", has directed and redirected my life in so many ways, countless times. 🔄 Want to learn more? 🧐 Check out this 10-minute PNTV episode from our unofficial resident professor, Brian Johnson. Shine on, friends! ✨🌟

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